by Jan Wolbrecht | Aug 7, 2022 | Guns and Politics
How to talk to those who support gun control. Hold your ground and have a conversation — not a fight or argument.
“According to almost every major study on the issue, Americans use their firearms defensively between 500,000 and 3 million times each year.” From @HeritageDataViz Data Visualizations
I feel we are at a boiling point in America on so many levels. One side against the other pushing and believing with all their hearts in what they say (or believe in) is the “absolute truth”.
We all know no matter how thin the pancake is, there are always two sides.
So, the question remains how to talk rationally to those who are for gun control?
The DC Project has a great resource on this topic and a free download here.
One of the most important things to remember is getting off on the right foot.
Begin the conversation with finding common ground. “How”? you may ask.
We all want to feel safe in our own homes and communities and to protect our family.
Share your values why feeling safe matters to you –
- I carry to protect myself / yourself and Life.
- A firearm equalizes the malice of evil intent
- I don’t want to be helpless – I don’t want to be a victim
- Chances are no one will be there to help (or save me) so I will need to be the first responder to a crime scene or what may have been a potential crime scene but was warded off because I was prepared individual
Here are some ways to brainstorm
- Sharing your truth is an opportunity to inform, enlighten, inspire and support our Constitutional rights.
- . Write down a list of everything you would want someone to know about why you support 2A rights.
- Then, write a benefit for the person you are (or my in contact with)
- Give yourself several responses
- Speak calmly and address the value for them (i.e. What’s in it for me)
Speak calmly and from your heart.
Share your story and let your emotions out – don’t force them but don’t be embarrassed if the reason you chose a firearm brought tears to your eyes.
Come from a place of education rather than throwing the Constitution at them. Education is such an eye opener.
Relate the fear, nervousness of learning to drive a car (also a deadly weapon – in the wrong hands) to firearms. Once you learn proper gun safety and handling rules, (learning “how” to drive and practicing driving) your fear and nerves subside.
After all, it’s the PERSON using the instrument (car, truck, knife, or firearm) not the object.
There are already many laws “on the books” and that doesn’t stop malicious intent. Evil cannot be stopped – other than by a higher power, i.e. God.
Asking questions and LISTEN.
Do you believe you have a right to survive and to protect your family?
Your wife, child(ren), mom, dad, siblings, neighbor, etc.?
If so, the Second Amendment guarantees your freedom to choose how to protect them.
by Jan Wolbrecht | Jul 17, 2022 | Guns and Politics
There’s a saying here in the South – “The squeaky wheel gets the oil”. Now, if you’re unsure of the meaning – just think back to when you heard something constantly screeching or such as a dripping faucet.
That constant annoying sound, or dripping faucet, will drive you crazy and you WILL take action and or do something to stop the noise!
This is what’s happening to our 2A fight! We’ve been too quiet for far too long and there is a bad storm brewing to come in and steal our country and constitutional, God given rights.
There’s a lot of code speak regarding “gun violence”, gun control, “Red flag laws” and the like.
What does it all mean, to you?
Wikipedia defines Red flag law as “ In the United States, a red flag law is a gun control law that permits police -also includes family members and others – petition a state court to order the temporary removal of firearms from a person who they believe may present a danger to others or themselves.”
Before going any further, we should take a closer look.
It’s not only the Police who can make a claim but anyone! Suppose you’re involved in a relationship and your “other half” makes an accusation…because you
- had a bad break up
- an argument (with a neighbor, spouse, family member, friend, co worker, boss…)
- your partner is violent (or domestic abuser).
Yes, these UN-substantiated claims could have your rights and firearms removed without the presumption of innocence or a hearing.
Wikipedia continues, “A judge makes the determination to issue the order based on statements and actions made by the gun owner in question.[1] Refusal to comply with the order is punishable as a criminal offense.[2][3] After a set time, the guns are returned to the person from whom they were seized unless another court hearing extends the period of confiscation.[4][5][6]”
So, could someone lie to the judge and say you said x-y-z happened… yadda, yadda, in order to disarm you or for revenge sake? There’s plenty of evidence that something of this sort could easily come from what fills our news reports lately….
“Orders issued under “red flag” laws, also called risk-based gun removal laws,[7] are known by several names, including Extreme Risk Protection Orders (ERPOs) (in Oregon, Washington, Maryland, Vermont, and Colorado); Extreme Risk Firearm Protection Orders (ERFPO) (in New Mexico); Risk Protection Orders (in Florida); Gun Violence Restraining Orders (GVROs) (in California); risk warrants (in Connecticut); and Proceedings for the Seizure and Retention of a Firearm (in Indiana).[8] As of 2021, 19 states and the District of Columbia have enacted some form of red-flag law.[9][10] The specifics of the laws, and the degree to which they are utilized, vary from state to state.[11] “
There is more ambiguity than clarity. This regulation does not pass the smell test.
- What are the limitations?
- How long can your personal property be kept from you?
- Who gets to decide? Or Report?
- Why have you been stripped of your guns before you had a fair trial?
- Why are we not presumed to be innocent?
On another note, a point to consider and notice the “buzz words” used by the media and others. Hey, they’re good at it and it flies under the radar. We have to pay closer attention to what’s NOT being said!
We, good honest people, tend to believe that others have the same intentions and come from a place of doing what is right and best for all.
…Remember, there Is a reason why “they” want to take away our Second Amendment rights. Let’s be bold and take a stand to ensure we have our freedoms.
What can you do?
- Contact your state representatives – Call, email them and in a “Dragnet” matter of fact way, give them “just the facts” that you are not in support of Red Flag Laws and limiting your Second Amendment rights.
- You are in support of women having the right to choose any way they choose and they have the right to protect their lives.
- Domestic violence victims will become more helpless if such laws are passed. This puts more people in dangerous, life threatening situation(s).
- “gun violence” is NOT a viable term. A firearm cannot and isn’t violent; it takes a person to cause harm using a firearm.The heart of an individual cannot be regulated.
I want to introduce you to the “Hold my Guns” organization if you have a loved one in crisis.
Hold My Guns’ mission is to connect responsible firearm owners with voluntary, private off-site storage options, through their national network of partnering gun shops and FFLs, for safety during times of mental health crisis or personal need. You know where they are, who is holding it for you and can claim your property without having to go to court to get what rightfully belongs to you.
In light of the recent shootings and concern for those in need, I believe Hold My Guns is a better option.
On a personal note, I feel that there is more of a crisis with the different mental health department and agencies not communicating with one another. The solution should be focused on solving why the aftermath messages is always about missing all the “signs”!
So lets all make some noise, that being schedule into your calendar to make that call, write that email to your representative. We must come together as a group with one repeating voice of No Red Flag Laws.
Stay in prayer for America and keep your eyes open.
God Bless,
Jan
by Jan Wolbrecht | May 20, 2022 | Uncategorized
Once a year in North Georgia, women from across the country come together for one Fabulous Girls Weekend!
A full weekend of making new friends and connecting with old friends. Whats the common link among us?
Guns! Yep, we are women shooters! Many of these fabulous ladies are firearm trainers learning and improving their own skills so they can in turn, help others improve their skills.
Conversations around firearms aren’t to welll received in todays culture. This “taboo” label makes it more difficult for some individuals to cross over that “entry barrior” into the shooting sports.
I found learning to shoot exciting and empowering. Yes, safety is a MUST. Building a skill and self confidence is a great reward.
If you are considering learning about firearms for home or self defense, competition shooting, hunting, skeet / trap or just for fun, I recommend taking a few classes with a certified instructor(s).
I highly recommend Shelley and Brian Hill of The Complete Combatant (here in Georgia). Not only are they great shooters themselves, but excellent teachers.
I am so honor to call them “friends” and to be invited to the amazing environment The Complete Combatant has created with The Mingle.
A networking and training weekend for women in the firearms industry.
by Jan Wolbrecht | Apr 30, 2022 | Uncategorized
Mother’s Day Gift Ideas
As a small business, I want to encourage you to support local small business when shopping.
Yes, Amazon is convenient and you can find pretty much anything under the sun. But, wouldn’t you feel better knowing you’re helping your community by choosing to shop the brand store or brick and mortar boutiques.
Shannon Bream has two books out about the women of the Bible. The one on the left was her first book on women of the Bible. Shannon’s newest book on the right, in pink, is about Mothers and Daughters of the Bible. I don’t think you could go wrong with either book, Or get both
These books are so pretty they would be great on the coffee table!
What goes with a good book? How about some Chocolates, strawberries and maybe a glass of Champagne.
You’ll find all kinds of delicious gifts at Gourmet Gift Baskets. 
Want something “Made in America”? Check out my (high school) friend’s shop, the Bluebird Cottage Gifts & Gourmet in Warm Springs, GA. She doesn’t have Online Checkout Cart, but if you’ll call/text Sharon (706) 655-4200) she’ll give you great customer service and will Ship your order!
Two of Sharon’s best sellers are the candles below:
And of course, you just can’t go wrong shopping at Incognito Wear IX. Whether it’s for the woman who shoots and concealed carries or you want Mom to feel special with some unique but casual jewelry. Adjustable cuff bracelets or more fitted bracelet with leather and rhinestones. Jewelry is a personal gift and you won’t have to worry about getting the right size.
Fill a new purse with pepper spray so Mom can stay safe when she’s on the go.
If you can’t decide on what to get Mom, a Gift Card is the perfect gift. For a limited time, you can save money of Gift Cards. Buy a fifty dollar gift card for only $45. Buy $100 Gift card for $90.00. It’s a Win-Win. This will be my first year without my mom, and yes, it’s bittersweet. Additionally, none of my children will be home either. I’ll make time to talk with my children and family and treat myself to a Wonderful Day in honor of Mom!
