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#FashionFriday Concealed Carry style tips – 1 week till Christmas! Are you ready?

12/18/20. One week before Christmas…. Wishing you and yours a joyous Christmas.

Stay safe this Christmas and Everyday with self defense items to protect you and yours. We’re here to help!

Watch the video below for how to wear it and conceal your self defense device. I hope this video helps you to concealed carry because you should “Never be a victim because of style”.

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Clothing specifically designed for those who are self reliant in protecting themselves and loved ones.

Christmas is next Friday! Fashion Fridays will be off for the next 2 weeks in observance of the holidays and New Year’s day. Spend quality time with loved ones and family. May you find the joy of Christmas and the love of Jesus this season as we celebrate the birth of our Savior.

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year! – Jan

  • Don’t forget to take care of yourself too. See your dermatologist.
  • Share in the comments below your concealment tips. We’re better together.
Quarantine Lifted? Spring back to Normalcy and Celebrate … family and Mother’s Day.

Quarantine Lifted? Spring back to Normalcy and Celebrate … family and Mother’s Day.

I think we’re all ready for life to return to normal as we head into spring and look forward to summertime fun.  I know you missed your loved ones and heartbroken to have missed out on the many family events or celebrations over the past month or so, me too!

As our country begins to open up, Let’s get back to normal or perhaps a better you. Did you get the down time; the “rest and relaxation” you needed?

Family seems more important these days as “absence makes the heart grow fonder” rings true. Perhaps, you’re finding the silver lining of this quarantine to really spend quality time with your kids and family.

I know it’s been a rough few weeks, okay, maybe it feels like forever!

What did you do to get the most out of being at home? Are you still adjusting to working from home with your children underfoot….and being teacher, Principal and a Chef!

Do you feel like you’re running your own restaurant! There have been so many super hero stories of people helping people, neighbors helping neighbors.

As we move closure to May and Mother’s Day, I hope it will be extra special this year!

You need a big hug! You have done an amazing job getting through… and you can see the light at the end of the tunnel. Kinda symbolic, don’t you think? Right after Easter, the Spring Season and all?

Is it too early to think about Mother’s Day? It will be the first national holiday we can (of course, carefully following guidelines) get together – with friends, loved ones and party!

Mother’s Day 5/10/20

If you think Mom has everything and you have no idea how to make this day special, I’ve gotcha some help!

Nothing saves “I love you” like pictures! So, if you can’t think of a single thing, and we’ve got ideas in the photo below, remember Mom loves photographs of her children. (ok, I certainly do! – hint hint!)

So this list might have first been thought of for Christmas, but these are great ideas for Mom – for any occasion! I would also add our clothes, and accessories. Of course, teaching your mother how to save and defend her life is “priceless”. Our clothes will have Mom in style whether she carries a firearm or pepper spray, she’ll never be a victim.

101 Gift Giving Ideas for Mom

I’m guessing these past few weeks have really made you more aware of how you can best protect your family Take comfort in that you’re not alone. If you one of the many new gun owners since this virus invaded us, you appreciate the 2nd Amendment more and the sense of empowerment this new found skill gives you. Now that you’ve realized that you are the “First Responder” to your situation, I urge you to keep up with the practice and the training.

I’m a founding member of The Women’s Concealed Carry Alliance; all things women and concealed carry.   In today’s world, women desire options for everyday concealed carry.  To meet the need, these entrepreneurial women have stepped up to solve the need for real options.  That’s where the WCCA comes in, to provide one reliable source to find all those carry options, and meet the women behind the designs.  About WCCA

Here’s a graphic of other valuable resources to check out.

If this isn’t you, I urge you to think about this reality and to empower others. Learning to drive a car at 16, gave you a great sense of freedom, independence and empowerment. Being able to defend your life can give you so much more. There are a lot of options from guns / firearms to pepper spray, stun gun, striking tools and more.

Damsel in Defense products for non-lethal self defense. Independent Pro28393

This Mother’s Day, honor MOM by teaching her situational awareness and the ability to defend her life. After all, you wouldn’t be here without Mom.

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Family Thanksgiving

Can you believe it’s this time of the year already! We are preparing for our holidays sales events – the best of the year!

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We wish you the best as you come together with family and friends to celebrate your traditions and maybe start new ones. I come from a fairly large family of three sisters. It’s hard getting family together some times, and traveling can add on stress. This year, our “core family” tradition is melding to accommodate the growing extended family – adding a son in law and grandchildren.

A favorite tradition for my sister and I was spreading out the Thanksgiving Day paper and making our Christmas lists.

As we got older, The Thanksgiving Day paper became our shopping list for Christmas. My sister’s and I would develop a plan ,going in opposite directions or different anchor big box stores, and help each other get the coveted holiday toy And, the best BLACK FRIDAY DEALS AND DOOR BUSTERS to save money!

If you Sign up for our emails, you won’t miss out on any specials this holiday season. We have some great gift ideas and prices you’ll love.

Weekly promos will be coming your way! Follow us on our social platforms too!

and a true BLACK FRIDAY / CYBER MONDAY SALE – 4 days only on our Lion+Lamb best selling women’s concealed carry top.

This holiday season you’ll be the best dressed and armed!

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What’s your handicap? Overcoming shooting challenges

What’s your handicap? Overcoming shooting challenges


While you may be excited to talk about Golf, that wasn’t quite what I had in mind…


Last week we talked about “shooting handicaps”.  Do you have any concerns about your form  or stance when shooting?  Perhaps, you received a pistol for Christmas and are just starting your journey discovering the wonderful world of shooting . We hope by sharing our story, it will keep you on a straighter path; i.e. less costly mistakes.

Gun shopping is not like shopping most women are a custom to. For starters, you not likely to find this type of store at the Mall. So it may take a bit of planning for this type of shopping trip. Unlike things one may purchase at the mall, with guns once you buy it – it’s yours!

If you decide later that you don’t like the gun, there isn’t really a “Return Policy”.  The Return Policy is up to you and how you want to sell it. So be sure before you buy- unless you’re into collecting guns and your income stream can support your habit ?.

Several things I didn’t realize when I was “trying on” i.e gripping and handled the pistol at the store…. I didn’t really hold it as in anticipation of shooting it down range.

First, I felt really self-conscious about gun shopping and trying to hold the gun, pull the trigger while not pointing the barrel toward any of the other customers all around me.

Secondly, I inadvertently adjusted my grip (and or wrist) around the grip of the pistol so that I could pull the trigger. This is my handicap – small hands and I have since realized finding a firearm for me will prove to be challenging shopping experience. Limp wristing is a good way to get malfunctions

Now, not all of this was realized purely by going to the range. It was through classes and drills of some likely self defense scenarios, that all the pieces began fitting together and the picture became clearer. Another reason why training and practice are important.

Single stack vs. Double stack – graphic /pintrest

Important finding (for me)- I cannot shoot a gun that has a double stack magazine. Not without having a malfunction. A double stack magazine means the grip is going to be bigger. “Double stack” refers to how the bullets line up within the magazine and typically holds about 13-15 rounds. This is good in one sense. More bullets = better protection, right? Also, it makes the gun heavier and therefore, less recoil, which is ideal. But for me, it means more malfunctions. Some might argue this is a good drill to work on clearing malfunctions ?.

So, are you a double stack or single stack gun owner? That depends on YOU.

Some guns have interchangeable back straps that can help for smaller hands. However, you still need to have enough (of your index) finger to pull the trigger.

From the graphic above, you can see how the placement of your trigger finger effects the placement of the bullet on the target. The slightest adjustments can have less desirable results.

So, when shopping for a gun, remember to consider placement of your trigger finger, grip and your wrist. It’s not just about being able to pull the trigger… you want to hit what you aim for. (Important to remember ever bullet has a name on it).

Stay tuned for more –

T’was right before Christmas

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… to receive packages for Christmas… but have no fear

A friendly reminder that if you haven’t ordered your gift by now, we cannot guarantee it will be delivered in TIME for Christmas!

We do have some options available for you in the way of our GIFT CARDS.

Enter the amount you want to gift, check out, download and print. BAM! Gift in hand! It’s the perfect fit.

We wish you and yours a most Joyous Christmas! May the Beauty of the SEASON reflect the MIRACLE of CHRIST’S BIRTH and may it fill your heart now and in the New Year.

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Merry Christmas