by Jan Wolbrecht | Jan 15, 2023 | Uncategorized
As we celebrate Martin Luther King day, It’s a good time to reflect on avoiding violence and taking a page out of his life. Taking a page out of Martin Luther Kings’ life. In tough times it takes strong men to discuss matters rather than resulting to violence.
One way, of course, is to avoid it all together. However, if “trouble” finds you, are you prepared and layered up in devices?
Martin Luther King believed we could settle differences rationally. I still believe that today – al beit, it seems tougher these days than those days of old.
That’s why having non lethal tools such as P.O.M pepper spray is a good and useful device for self defense.
Tempers are running extremely high (for some unknown reasons). I’ve noticed that the more stressed someone is, the more likely they are to be short on patience. And, therefore, more likely to potentially have some type of an irrational outbursts.
Take a deep breath, layer self defense tools and be observant to stay safe.
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by Jan Wolbrecht | Nov 25, 2022 | Fashion Friday Concealed Carry style & Tips, Gift Ideas for Holidays
We all have “that family member”. That family member that is soo hard to buy for. We’ve giving you some gift ideas to solve this problem of “”What to get the gun enthusiast for Christmas!
It’s a personal decision on how you plan to enforce protection for yourself and your property. At some point, you’ll make a decision about concealing a firearm and non lethal tools for self defense. So, we here at Incognito Wear IX, understand that concealing a handgun changes your wardrobe and we’ve designed clothing Just For you … and the gun enthusiast!
Of course, concealed carry clothes are always a hit (30 day returns / exchanges)
What woman doesn’t want new Bling?! You can always put a smile on her face with our jewelry options. From silver plated hammered wide cuff bracelets and leather rhinestones and leather life inspired metal bracelets, rings and necklaces
For the “I refuse to wear a belt” person; our Strix Bellyband not only holds a firearm but plenty of pockets for lipstick, keys and cash / cards. Wear this instead of carrying a purse
Looking for a gun purse? We have a new selection of concealed carry purses with designated compartment for your firearm.
Stocking stuffers items like
When you don’t know what to get – Incognito Wear IX Gift Card in increments of $25.00, buy and download and Give.
Merry Christmas and working hard to keep you safe while being fashionable and incognito. When you are concealed carry, you’ll never be a victim because of style.
by Jan Wolbrecht | Apr 23, 2022 | Uncategorized
March goes out like a Lion and April in like a Lamb…. as say they say.
When I think of April, I have good thoughts <3
April brings about beautiful landscapes. Flowering shrubs and trees, daffodils, lilies, tulips, a beautiful showcase of blooming Azaleas.
It seems the allure of springtime also creates an opportunity for bad things to happen.
April is sexual assault awareness month.
Perhaps it should be every month, but as many seniors are leaving the nest, it is a good time to focus on some simple tips to stay safe. Unfortunately, things can happen anywhere, to anyone, at anytime – day or night.
One in three females victims (of either) completed or attempted rape experienced it for the first time between the ages of 11 and 17. SOURCE
When looking or moving your child into school,
- take note of where the campus security stations
- Simple things like not walking alone, especially late at night.
- Know the schedule of buses or trams and when they stop running.
- If you’re studying late at night, make sure to communicate with a roommate or friend.
- Let others know where you are going to be and with whom.
If you’re the parent of a graduating student (or friend), a great graduation gift would be some measure of self defense (for example pepper spray). Layering self defense tools is also a good idea. Having a flashlight, whistle or personal alarm can also be helpful.
Almost one in four undergraduate women experienced sexual assault or misconduct at 33 of the nation’s major universities. SOURCE
I’m personally speaking from experience and it’s one of the events that lead me to start Incognito Wear IX. I experienced frustration and a sense of helplessness.
My daughter didn’t want to talk about the event. So, how do you help your child process though a horrific event. I was shocked to find out that the campus police don’t seem to be too interested in solving, taking on the case, or investigating the event.
Nor do the schools want the publicity of such an event or events.
My daughter wanted to forget the event and want it to “just go away”. I can understand how and why victims are so reluctant to speak out against their attacker.
One reason is the shame. Secondly, the embarrassment of the event and self blame. I believe the biggest reason is the fear of not being believed and having to relieve the trauma over and over.
I hope you or your child Never experiences an assault. It’s a difficult topic to speak about.
I believe getting professional help is critical; even as your child insist “they are fine” – They are NOT!
Emotional trauma should be processed in order to move through the event and on to good mental health.
The best solution for prevention, of course, is to become situational aware of your surroundings. Keep your head on a swivel. Make Eye contact and make mental notes of what you observed.
Again, having a flashlight, whistle, personal alarm, pepper spray, tactical pen, or (if campus carry or of proper age to carry) a firearm.
Be observant. Does it look normal? Would someone wear a winter coat in summer?
I invite you to share with your child the increase usage of date rape drugs, especially common at universities. For this reason, Never leave a beverage unattended.
Awareness of methods of attack are helpful, but what if…. this happens to you or someone you know?
I invite you to check out a few fictional novels that deal with this topic by an author who has experience and training in dealing / processing deep trauma for emotional health.
“Snatched but followed” by Frannie Watson and “Pursued but shielded
Additional helpful resources –
RAINN
Racheal’s Rest
by Jan Wolbrecht | Dec 12, 2021 | Uncategorized
It’s official, the Christmas season is in full force! The turkey has been served and well, demolished. Black Friday / Cyber Monday – the BEST Shopping time of the year gets you in the festive, giving mood <3
I’ll bet you’re looking forward to the crowds of people and meeting lot’s of extended family, friends, and even co-workers during this busy time surrounded by holiday shopping and lots of Christmas parties.
And while living a lifestyle of safety and self reliance isn’t easy at times, Christmas holiday parties can add in a new angle with party attire and cocktails – yes the style of dress and the beverage.
Alcohol and your firearm.
Some things to consider before the party
1. Are you going to carry? While you may jump and say, “of course”, but I’d then have to ask you the question whether or not you intend to have any alcoholic drinks. It’s important to ALWAYS BE SAFE with firearms. So, make that decision before you get to the party. Know your limits. If you plan on drinking, plan to leave the firearm at home or have a designated “cc” friend/spouse.
2. If you’re going to carry at this festive Christmas party, I’d strongly encourage to carry on-body. It’s far too easy to become engaged in a story, for example, and forget to watch your (concealed carry) purse you “set down for a minute” (with your firearm unattended). Yes, it’s likely nothing would happen – but,then again, no one knows.
3.Test drive the holster and dress before the night of the party. We all know “practice makes perfect” and when it comes to saving your life, you want to be perfect so practice. Make sure if you’re carrying in a new location such as a thigh holster, you’ll want to know how to safely draw your firearm… just in case….
4. When it comes to dressing for a party, we have some great options like “Lacy” a black lace top that’s elegant, festive and conceals your firearm with easy. Of course, our signature original crossover top, “Lion + Lamb” is also a good choice. Both tops are Made in America and styled with “leather” looking leggings or a skirt, heels or boots, and some bling and you’ll be all set!
5.Carrying in a dress. This is a challenge to bend over, pull up the skirt or amount of fabric and draw your firearm. Personally, I’m more comfortable in slacks or a skirt over a dress. But I know there are dress lovers out there and that’s why I designed “Abigail” concealed carry dress. Carry your firearm where you can get to it quickly and the ideal location – at your waist!. “Abigail” was designed around our “Strix Bellyband holster” which has a built in trigger guard.
One final point, whatever holster you use, make sure it completely covers the trigger guard. If your holster has a clip on it, make sure it fits securely around your belt and doesn’t come off your belt when drawing your unloaded firearm as you test and practice.
Be safe & Merry!
I hope you know how much Jesus loves you! I invite you to experience his love this Christmas Season..
by Jan Wolbrecht | Oct 6, 2021 | Uncategorized
Recently, I had the honor of being a guest on Tactical Pay Radio to share my story and discuss what goes into clothing that is both fashionable and functional for concealed carry.
Designing clothing that looks great, and also allows everyday people to hide their firearms in plain sight isn’t easy, but the results speak for themselves.
Click here to Listen along as I break it all down.
You can discovery more stories at https://www.tacticalpay.com/079-incognitowearix/
Or listen on to this episode on Tactical Pay Radio hub page: https://www.tacticalpay.com/podcast/
