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Quarantine Lifted? Spring back to Normalcy and Celebrate … family and Mother’s Day.

Quarantine Lifted? Spring back to Normalcy and Celebrate … family and Mother’s Day.

I think we’re all ready for life to return to normal as we head into spring and look forward to summertime fun.  I know you missed your loved ones and heartbroken to have missed out on the many family events or celebrations over the past month or so, me too!

As our country begins to open up, Let’s get back to normal or perhaps a better you. Did you get the down time; the “rest and relaxation” you needed?

Family seems more important these days as “absence makes the heart grow fonder” rings true. Perhaps, you’re finding the silver lining of this quarantine to really spend quality time with your kids and family.

I know it’s been a rough few weeks, okay, maybe it feels like forever!

What did you do to get the most out of being at home? Are you still adjusting to working from home with your children underfoot….and being teacher, Principal and a Chef!

Do you feel like you’re running your own restaurant! There have been so many super hero stories of people helping people, neighbors helping neighbors.

As we move closure to May and Mother’s Day, I hope it will be extra special this year!

You need a big hug! You have done an amazing job getting through… and you can see the light at the end of the tunnel. Kinda symbolic, don’t you think? Right after Easter, the Spring Season and all?

Is it too early to think about Mother’s Day? It will be the first national holiday we can (of course, carefully following guidelines) get together – with friends, loved ones and party!

Mother’s Day 5/10/20

If you think Mom has everything and you have no idea how to make this day special, I’ve gotcha some help!

Nothing saves “I love you” like pictures! So, if you can’t think of a single thing, and we’ve got ideas in the photo below, remember Mom loves photographs of her children. (ok, I certainly do! – hint hint!)

So this list might have first been thought of for Christmas, but these are great ideas for Mom – for any occasion! I would also add our clothes, and accessories. Of course, teaching your mother how to save and defend her life is “priceless”. Our clothes will have Mom in style whether she carries a firearm or pepper spray, she’ll never be a victim.

101 Gift Giving Ideas for Mom

I’m guessing these past few weeks have really made you more aware of how you can best protect your family Take comfort in that you’re not alone. If you one of the many new gun owners since this virus invaded us, you appreciate the 2nd Amendment more and the sense of empowerment this new found skill gives you. Now that you’ve realized that you are the “First Responder” to your situation, I urge you to keep up with the practice and the training.

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If this isn’t you, I urge you to think about this reality and to empower others. Learning to drive a car at 16, gave you a great sense of freedom, independence and empowerment. Being able to defend your life can give you so much more. There are a lot of options from guns / firearms to pepper spray, stun gun, striking tools and more.

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This Mother’s Day, honor MOM by teaching her situational awareness and the ability to defend her life. After all, you wouldn’t be here without Mom.

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Concealed Carry – Warmer Weather – Learn from my Mistakes  #105

Concealed Carry – Warmer Weather – Learn from my Mistakes #105

Breaking all the fashion rules!

Now that we’re getting into warmer weather and less layers, you may find concealed carry a bit more challenging now.

One option is moving to a smaller pistol that’s easier to hide.

If that option’s not for you, your still in luck! As luck would have it, great features like ruffles and use of asymmetrical lines (or hems) work to minimize printing of the firearm. With these features now in style, you can buy clothes that FIT YOU and not oversized JUST to conceal that gun.

Since we’re talking about summer weather, look for cotton fabrics, such as seersucker, and linen that will help to keep you cool due to their lighter weight and breath-ability.

We offer several concealed carry dresses (in cotton) that will help to beat that summertime heat while carrying. We’ve designed our dresses for carrying at one’s waist which is the most ideal location. Because of this, we suggest use of a bellyband holster with our dresses.

Many women find that a thigh holster is useful for wearing with Sundresses. A lot of ladies like wearing dresses specially during summer months because they are cooler when the temperatures soar.

It’s important thing to practice your draw when you carry. When carrying in a dress, remember it’s going to take two hands and a big grab of fabric to lift your skirt to be able to get to your gun, if it’s needed. You may want to consider a taser or pepper spray as another alternative for self defense.

If you’re not the dress wearing type, but more of “separates” dresser; select tops that are loose-fitting. A summertime bonus is it’ll help keep you cool when a nice breeze blows by :).

For me, any time is color time- it makes me happy.

If you’re not a fan of color or patterns, try to keep in mind this will assist (you) in camouflaging your weapon and that’s got to make you happy!

Below, I pair brown slacks with a 2 piece top Salmon top made specifically for concealed carry. Even though most would consider Brown to be more of a winter color, but this isn’t a dark chocolate brown but a muted brown and the fabric is lightweight cotton. Nude sandals keep it summery fresh.

Bright colorful tops with darker bottoms work if a lightweight fabric such as this.

Confidence starts on the inside, so make that decision that you look fabulous in colors!

A pair of white pants are a summer favorite for many. White is perfect with anything, even a white top, for a classic monochromatic look. Mix in a splash of sunshine with a colorful scarf or brightly colored accessories.

White denim is one of my favorite summertime go to.

Do you practically live in jeans? This raw edge (or hem) is popping up like flowers. Look for jeans with some stretch for added comfort. A few rips and some fringe gives a distressed, well worn appearance. Espadrille, flat sandals complement this look for date night or the office, while sneakers keep it more casual.

distressed look & cas

Of course, you can’t go wrong with black & white. Make it pop for Spring with colorful accessories. We have a new Tank that blends these two worlds. It’s black & white Striated texture is a master of disguise! It’s perfect to wear under any button down blouse.

Preview of 505 Tank in the making


This top’s unique opening makes it a MUST HAVE for the world traveler to keep those pesky pick-pocketers away! Look for our 505 Tank Top holster (sizes XS- XL) at the USCCA Concealed Carry Expo in a few weeks. Available for pre ordering now.

While, there aren’t any rules for fashion, what does matter is your confidence and having the good proportions for that perfect #OOTD (outfit of the day).

Incognito Wear IX knows that warmer months can be challenging to concealed carry. You don’t have to buy larger size clothes to hide your pistol, you can still find some ways to stay stylish, fashionable and feminine.

With Mother’s Day coming up this weekend, we found a link that might help with some last minute gift ideas for Mother’s Day.

However, the best Mother’s Day gift is teaching Mom how to protect herself. Sign Mom up for a firearm safety class and a trip to the range with you!

Blessings!

Happy Mother’s Day, Mom!