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Finding a New Normal and crime

Finding a New Normal and crime

Some criminals are invisible
What happens during this time of a “New Normal” … and well, crime? Due to “social distancing”, curfews and self quarantines, what does our day to day life look like in the midst of a Covid-19 pandemic and how to avoid becoming a victim.
Are you noticing a Fear of lawlessness… This is why many are becoming first time gun owners.
I’m sure you’ve been inundated with constant updates about the Coronavirus (Covid-19).

We are living in uncertain times. For many the reality of  trying to keep our families and homes safe from any looters, break ins, violence or chaos may be more daunting than the fear of the virus. As our daily life structure seems to change everyday, I believe the concern over Martial Law is top of mind more now than ever in our lifetime!

People are scared and this is a wake up call for many about just how “prepared” do you need to be?
So, what can we do to become prepared and staying safe?As a member of the concealed carry parliament, first I recommend that keep calm and keep our eyes open – be observant and watchful.

Remember that “panic” behavior is very contagious! Did you buy toilet paper because there seemed to be a run on it?… me too 🙂

And with “panic” behavior, you’re going to see more of a survival of the fittest play out all around you if you haven’t already… This may be a mix of FOMO (fear of missing out) or instinct. Whatever it is, this is translating to large number of gun sales, waiting lines, and a shortage of ammo.

Why? Many people are waking up to the fear that our government won’t, isn’t , or can’t protect you. Are you concerned with how to defend your family?

The silver lining in this scenario, eyes are being opened for the first time and perhaps your friends philosophy about gun control are changing. This epidemic is opening eyes to the power, freedom and importance of our Second Amendment and why it’s so very important to protect it.
Get and stay involved with your local elections. Let’s use this opportunity for protecting ourselves, growing number of gun owners; NOT Reducing our Rights.

Do you have a plan? A plan in case of home a invasion? Do the kids know what to do, where to go (hide) until there is a “safe word”? What about a flashlight, cell phone, self defense tool? Do you need a bug out / bug in bag?

… And, what about your finances? Check out this information on preparing your finances for emergencies.

Are you seeing a spike in crime in your area? In my area via Nextdoor Neighbor app, groceries being stolen off of front porches, and Amazon packages. There are shortages of grocery stores, medical supplies, gun ranges being broken into. Cities are going on lock down. Things are serious and you need to take what action you can to stay safe and protect your family.

Here’s some survival skills information, and with kids being home now it’s important to make sure they know Eddie Eagle (children’s gun safety). It”s our hope during this time, you are able to connect with your child in a new way or better than before. We are all so very busy and it’s challenging to balance all of life’s obstacles.

As a Damsel in Defense independent Pro, we have a series of Safe Hearts books that help you talk to your kids about their “personal space”. These story books helps in communicating with your children so they understand what ‘looks’ one way, may feel very differently internally. The perpetrator isn’t a stranger anymore, but is typically someone the child knows. Did you realize 70% of sexual assaults occur before the age of 17?

Damsel in Defense – Children’s Book Series

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Family Thanksgiving

Can you believe it’s this time of the year already! We are preparing for our holidays sales events – the best of the year!

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We wish you the best as you come together with family and friends to celebrate your traditions and maybe start new ones. I come from a fairly large family of three sisters. It’s hard getting family together some times, and traveling can add on stress. This year, our “core family” tradition is melding to accommodate the growing extended family – adding a son in law and grandchildren.

A favorite tradition for my sister and I was spreading out the Thanksgiving Day paper and making our Christmas lists.

As we got older, The Thanksgiving Day paper became our shopping list for Christmas. My sister’s and I would develop a plan ,going in opposite directions or different anchor big box stores, and help each other get the coveted holiday toy And, the best BLACK FRIDAY DEALS AND DOOR BUSTERS to save money!

If you Sign up for our emails, you won’t miss out on any specials this holiday season. We have some great gift ideas and prices you’ll love.

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and a true BLACK FRIDAY / CYBER MONDAY SALE – 4 days only on our Lion+Lamb best selling women’s concealed carry top.

This holiday season you’ll be the best dressed and armed!

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Cross Country Road Trip -Traveling loaded. Learn from my mistakes #107

Cross Country Road Trip -Traveling loaded. Learn from my mistakes #107

Traveling cross country with a firearm

How ‘bout it? You get stopped by police and you accidentally give the police your concealed carry weapons permit instead of your drivers license!

I bet things don’t go as your thought from this point on. What started out as a summertime cross country road trip with the whole family, now could end with you losing your firearm or worse getting locked up! Remember, that happened to a New Jersey woman.

These days, your road trip is no longer about counting cows, playing car poker, punch buggy or such games to keep the kids busy instead of asking “Are we there yet”? Perhaps the grown ups should play a game of is this state a “Duty to Inform” state?

To keep the kids from worrying if Dad (or Mom) is going to jail, it’s wise to know what the gun laws are in each state of your route. Not only do you need to know “how” to carry concealed, but should you be pulled over, whether you are obligated to inform the officer, you have a weapons permit and (if) you are carrying (at that specific moment).

In case you are new to possessing a concealed carry license, it doesn’t work across state lines like a driver’s license does. That means each state has to agree to recognize your home states’ permit AND to complicate or make matters worse for the traveler with a firearm, each state has it’s own gun laws and restrictions.

In some states, you do not have to disclose you have a weapon on you or in the vehicle unless asked by the officer. Other states, it’s required to inform the cop who pulls you over. This is a touchy subject for a lot of folks because you don’t know how someone will respond and its best to choose your words wisely when you do speak (say “firearm” rather than “gun”).

Fortunately, 18 U.S. Code 926A   allows travel through, but not staying in, states where it’s illegal to carry firearms, for example, Maryland. Maryland isn’t gun friendly, but you can travel through the state with a firearm… although, the way you travel through with your firearm does have regulations.

Traveling with a gun does have its challenges due to the fact that each state and or city may have different laws and may change, or update (gun laws) at any given time. There is no uniform state transportation procedure for firearms. 🙁

If you’re in doubt about through a state, a traveler should carry firearms unloaded, secured in a locked case, and stored in an area (such as a trunk or attached toolbox) where they are inaccessible from the driver or passenger’s reach. A firearm should not be stored in the glove box or console. Any ammunition should also be stored in a separate locked container.

I’d add, say a prayer that you won’t need said firearm. Obviously, you wouldn’t be able to defend yourself if something went awry.

The Firearm Owners Protection Act of 1986 (FOPA) is a United States federal law that revised many provisions of the Gun Control Act of 1968, “notwithstanding any state or local law, a person is entitled to transport a firearm from any place where he or she may lawfully possess and carry such firearm to any other place where he or she may lawfully possess and carry it, if the firearm is unloaded and locked out of reach. In vehicles without a trunk, the unloaded firearm must be in a locked container other than the glove compartment or console. Ammunition that is either locked out of reach in the trunk or in a locked container other than the glove compartment or console is also covered.”

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valuables left in plain sight. photo:Ashcroft Cache Creek Journal

It should go without saying that you’d want to keep such valuables, including your handgun, computer and purse(s), out of plain view of anyone snooping or looking for “free” gifts.

Prepare ahead by contacting the Attorney General’s office in each state you may travel or by reviewing the Concealed Carry Reciprocity Guide

All travelers in areas with restrictive laws would be well advised to have copies of any applicable firearm licenses or permits, as well as copies or printouts from the relevant jurisdictions’ official publications or websites documenting pertinent provisions of law (including FOPA itself) or reciprocity information.

Here’s your checklist:

  1. You have a “license to carry” firearms in your home state for any lawful purpose (like self-defense).
  2. You can lawfully possess firearms in your destination (i.e. you’re not a felon).

Additionally, you need to know what’s off limits.

Generally speaking, any federal building, or a building with a security screening (metal detectors), will be off limits. Federal parks allow carry but with restrictions.

Bars, and establishments that serve alcohol, have come under “discussion” as to whether local laws want to allow such concealed carry. In Ga., private property can post signage of no firearms, but State Law allows one to carry in places. However, if it’s discovered that you are carrying in said establishment, when you are asked to leave, it’s best to heed that warning and leave on your own, instead of with assistance from police.

Definitions of certain terms in the law include:

  • Transporting- Not staying for any determined length of time. Passing through on the way to some place.
  • Unloaded- No ammunition in the firearm. In the case of McDaniel v. Arnold, the courts upheld a conviction based on the interpretation that the accused had a loaded firearm despite not having a round in the chambered position.[16]
  • Not readily accessible- There are no clear court decisions or interpretations available but this term is widely regarded as meaning Not capable of being reached quickly for operation.
  • Locked container- A hard-sided container that is locked such as to prevent unauthorized users from gaining access.
Be adventurous this summer – Explore!

If you still have any questions, call the police headquarters and inquire about the “concealed carry laws” for non-resident. Be sure to check regulations on ammunition as well.

Happy Trails.

Travel Safe and enjoy your road trip 🙂

Summertime Traveling Adventures – security check

Summertime Traveling Adventures – security check

 

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How’s your summer going? Mostly hot, I bet. Summertime is great.

No agenda, you don’t have to deal with crazy hectic schedules; nor rushing through traffic to get the kids to practice, rehearsal, event or a game. Hopefully it’s a time you can spend with family.

Maybe you are planning to create a great summer adventure – or vacay somewhere new.

Many people use “Summertime” as a time to make new memories or check something off your “bucket list”.

Perhaps, it’s a time for personal growth and development; whether educational, getting back into a hobby or learning a new skill you’ve always wanted to.

Taking a class is a great way to meet new friends as well. Don’t be afraid to ask what is the age to be considered eligible for senior discounts.

Don’t forget to check your local Parks & Recreational on their summer programs, camps, and kid activities as well as adults.

Maybe your the type that needs a getaway. If your not a frequent flyer,

and if you plan to travel with your firearm, here’s a quick reminder list:

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Traveling with a firearm? DO make sure you carry your concealed weapons permit with you.

  • DO verify you are legal to carry in that state.
  • DO have TSA approved box and locks for storing empty / unloaded firearm.
  • DO keep ammo separate from said firearm.
  • DON’T leave a spare magazine in your purse or any loose ammo. It will be confiscated.

 

  • Verify you can bring a “personal item” IN ADDITION TO the carry-on bag. Not all airlines allow this. Try to stuff a lady’s purse inside the carry-on bag.
  • A light sweater, scarf or small throw – keeps the chill off
  • Phone charger. It’s amazing how quick that battery can drain.
  • A snack, fruit and or gum. It helps equalize the pressure.

 

Know where you are going. This seems simple but if you travel to a city where there are multiple airports, be clear on which airport gets you closest to your final destination.

 

Renting a vehicle? Again, know where you are going – which airport that it. And, double check once you’ve purchased airfare. In trying to get the best deal you may have gotten confused… Surprisingly, it’s a pretty common event reserve a car at one airport & then show up at the other one and they don’t have your reservation!

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For me, it feels like summers are shorter. I imagine though there are still kids screaming “I’m bored” somewhere!

Are the kids really ready for “Back to school”?

It won’t be long before the nights become cooler, the days a little shorter and the leaves begin to fall.

What are your summer traditions, or your travel adventures. Share your stories below.

 

Stayed tuned for our announcement before summer blows away!